Unlike your other doctors, your obstetrician
has a responsibility for not only your health, but also for the
health and welfare of the new life you’re preparing to bring
into the world. Consequently, deciding who will handle this responsibility
is a decision that requires research, time and patience.
First, put together a list of possible candidates. To
do this, ask trusted family members, friends and other members of your
community what they know about obstetricians in your area. Talk to women
you know who have recently given birth. Ask them about their first-hand
experience with their obstetrician and listen carefully.
Your family doctor or internist is also a reliable source
of recommendations. Since your doctor is already familiar with your medical
needs and personality, he or she can likely make a suitable recommendation.
Once you’ve asked around and have a list of doctors,
how do you choose? Set up a preliminary meeting with each doctor. During
the meeting take careful note of the doctor’s demeanor and personality.
Do they encourage you to ask questions? Do you feel comfortable talking
with this person?
While it’s key that your doctor’s personality
is compatible with you and your partner, it’s not enough to form
a sound decision. You’ll need to do some research and ask some tough
questions before making an educated decision. It’s key to know things
such as:
How long has the obstetrician been in practice?
How many babies has he or she delivered?
Which hospitals is the obstetrician affiliated with?
Who will deliver your baby if your obstetrician is not
available?
How much time does the obstetrician spend with patients during each visit?
Under what circumstances, does he or she induce labor?
What types of tests does he or she rely on during pregnancy?
Does he or she ask patients to write birth plans?
Does the obstetrician provide postpartum care and support?
What percentage of women in his or her practice have
medicated births? Episiotomies? Cesarean sections?
If you or your child struggle with a birth injury such as Cerebral
Palsy during the labor and delivery process, you have the right to
seek legal compensation for the lifelong costs of raising a child with
special needs.
